There Are Always Two Ways

There Are Always Two Ways

I believe there are always two ways to do things. Here are a few examples:  Abundance or Scarcity  Growth or Fixed Love or Lust Positive or Negative Design or Default What do you think is the biggest challenge for most people? They have no plan for the day. Keep in...
Where Are You Aiming?

Where Are You Aiming?

In 2004 Olympian Matt Emmons was sure to win a gold medal. A shooter for the USA team, Emmons was so far ahead of his competitors that all he had to do was hit the target to win the gold. Emmons hit the bull’s eye, but it was the wrong target. So, he went from first...
Speed versus Velocity

Speed versus Velocity

Some people think speed and velocity have the same meaning. However, they are quite different.   Speed is the distance traveled over time. Velocity measures the speed and is direction aware.   Speed is one dimensional. Velocity is multiple dimensional. So...
Creating Margin in Your Life

Creating Margin in Your Life

What does it mean to have “Margin in life?”   Margin is the space between our load and our limits: our reserves. It is the opposite of overload.   Ways to Create Margin   1.  Be intentional: control your schedule. 2.  Learn to say NO! 3.  Define and defend...
The Yes Trap

The Yes Trap

Years ago, I saw a movie called “The Yes Man” with Jim Carrey. The premise of the film was that Jim Carrie had a habit of saying no to everything. A friend convinced him to go to a motivational event where he committed to saying “Yes” to everything. The theme made for...