by Scotty Sanders | Apr 29, 2022 | Relationships
Have you ever heard the expression “Personal Board of Directors?” Several times in the Bible, Proverbs says we need a “Multitude of Counselors.” In my forty-plus years of leading organizations, I learned by experience that this is the truth! But unfortunately, in my...
by Scotty Sanders | Feb 10, 2021 | Personal Development, Relationships
12 STEPS TO RESOLVE CONFLICT 7. SPEAK THE TRUTH RESPECTFULLY Speak truth, but with love (Velvet brick). 8. ATTACK THE PROBLEM, NOT THE PERSON Don’t use “you” statements; use “I” statements. 9. DEAL WITH SPECIFIC AREAS, NOT GENERALIZATIONS Specifics will help the...
by Scotty Sanders | Feb 6, 2021 | Personal Development, Relationships
12 STEPS TO RESOLVE CONFLICT 1. LEARN TO EMBRACE AND RESOLVE CONFLICT Not by flight or fight; be proactive. 2. ADDRESS YOUR ANGER APPROPRIATELY Don’t make it worse by your actions. 3. SEEK UNDERSTANDING, NOT VICTORY Learn to listen. Your goal is not to win. 4. ...
by Scotty Sanders | Jan 19, 2021 | Personal Development, Relationships
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE CONFRONTED (A Good Follow-Up on Resolving Conflict) Five Rules to Follow: 1. Don’t Get Defensive We tend to defend ourselves. 2. Thank the Person For Coming Directly To You Yes, thank them! They could have complained to others...
